The best advice I can offer is to move to Bristol.
There are lots of dance venues here. I have been doing ballroom since 1959, and started sequence in 2004. I am still doing lessons and lots of time on the floor - ballroom, sequence and some latin. If I had the time, I could be dancing every day. I have other hobbies but manage about four times a week on average, sometimes more.
At my regular club, there is inevitably an excess of ladies, but along with a few other spare guys, we manage to make sure that they all get a twirl on the floor.


. I get to dance with some really good partners.
We all help each other to learn new dances.
It's the most fun way I know of getting exercise and keeping things moving. I do go to a David Lloyd gym regularly for more exercise and swimming, but dancing is still the most enjoyable.
At my weekly class we have recently learned Waltz Catherine, Rockefeller jive and Turnbull tango. We start a new dance every few weeks.
In case you're wondering - no I don't dance the hornpipe !!